Nel, Con, Joaquin, Jacob .... The Versoza Inc.

OraLE! oLe!

2012-01-17T12:29:00.002+08:00

Thanks to Sister Tin and Fiance BJ, Nel and I are sooooo raving about this new Mexican Restaurant discovery....

ORALE, located at the Fort Strip

For better visual presentation, I grabbed these two pictures from OAP's blog

Their Chicken Quesadilla is simply TO DIE FOR!

The same goes for their STEAK BURRITO! Hubby forgot his name sa sarap! lol.

But sad to say, I can't say the same thing for their lonely Nachos -- just didn't click our taste buds :)

Órale! Taqueria Mexicana (address grabbed from OAP's blog as well)
The Fort Strip, 7th Avenue corner 28th Street
(located where Go Nuts Donuts used to be)
Bonifacio Global City

GaV and GeNe

2012-01-14T10:00:00.002+08:00

I got married in 2006, since then, my barkada would make a constant guess and bet who would tie the knot next.... and after 6 years... who knew... it would be Gene's turn!

The Ceremony was held at the Central United Methodist Church along TM Kalaw at the heart of Manila. It was a first for us to attend a Methodist (pardon if the term is incorrect) wedding, and it was like a Catholic's as well, just different with the readings and rites.

Kuya Joaquin was one of the Page Boys (a.k.a. Bearers), while Besty Chris was one of the Bridesmaids.

Besty Gene, trying hard not to cry... awww....

I love this part! "You may now kiss your bride".... meaning they are now officially married... wedding is over... and time to head to the reception... and eat!!! hahahaha!

I love love love the set-up that Scenta Creations did at the Makati Shanrila reception. The attention to details can't be missed! And it was so elegantly and tastefully done :)

Kuya Joaquin was thrilled when he saw his name on the place cards. He eagerly sat on his 'assigned' seat and insisted that his picture be taken with his 'place card'. haha :)

It was a beautiful and memorable wedding. You can feel the love. Now, if only Kats was here... :) I wonder when we will be complete again. Suddenly... I miss my Bestys

HappY 2012!

2012-01-01T23:09:00.001+08:00

Happy HaPPy NeW yeAr!

And I just know that 2012 will be an awesome year because of

them :)

mY FuLL-pLedGe kUya

2011-11-25T15:37:00.000+08:00

Ever since Jacob was born... one constant fear that hubby and I have is that Joaquin would reject his baby brother due to jealousy. So I researched for tips on how to ease the transition of JOaquin from being an only child to a Kuya.

I got tips, especially from co-Mommies, on how to prepare Joaquin, and it helped a lot. We included JOaquin with activities with regards to Jacob, like changing Jacob's diaper, giving meds to Jacob, etc.. We made him feel included by letting him participate and giving him 'Kuya' roles. Though it can't be avoided, especially during family gatherings, that relatives would focus more on Jacob (since he is newest addition), leaving Joaquin on one side. Whenever this happens, we have observed that JOaquin would find ways and do something in order to get attention :( That's why we double our effort with Joaquin, especially when we know that Jacob will be the 'star' of the show. Then there is Kuya's date day, (Kuya is the star! while Jacob is left at home with Lola), wherein we let him choose where to go, what to do, what to eat, etc...

SO on Kuya's date day, we went to Eastwood Mall. We made him choose where he wanted to eat (He chose Cravings, cause he saw the bread and buttter sa buffet station. lol). Then we made him play sa timezone, then we went Fully Booked where he got 2 books as prize for being a good Kuya. It was his day, he is the star :)

On our way home... this was the conversation that transpired between Kuya and Papa

Papa: "O Joaquin, nag-enjoy ka ba anak?"

Joaquin: "konting enjoy lang papa"

Papa: "O bakit naman? We did everything you want anak. Ikaw pumili ng restaurant. Nag-timezone tayo. May new books ka pa. Bakit konting enjoy ka lang?"

Joaquin: "Kasi papa iniwan natin si Jacob. Dapat kasama natin si Jacob para happy ako. Kasi diba family tayo, kaya dapat kasama din Jacob"

AWww.... Hubby and I were speechless! Another fear that we had, was for Joaquin to not want Jacob be with us during family trips and outings. BUt we were so amazed and touched at what Joaquin said.... He is a full pledge Kuya! And though there will unavoidable instances that he will feel 'left-out', deep inside, we know that he loves his brother :)

HaLF waY ThERe!

2011-11-18T15:36:00.000+08:00

And just like that, Jacob hits the half way mark! HapPy 6th month sweetheart!

At 6months, Jacob can now do the following:

> sit very minimal support

> roll over... and over... and over.... and over (lol)

> laugh and giggl when played to

> recognize faces (especially mama's and yaya's)

> reach out for an object

> focus at a moving object

But more importantly... he now started eating solids! yey! He is now weighs a hefty 9.5kgs :)

Of course, Kuya was there to lend a helping hand. He sooo adores his baby brother :)

YayA vs. AmO (EmPLoYeR)

2011-11-12T11:30:00.000+08:00

Haha! This is so funny :)

source: http://leahdeleon.com/2011/11/11/this-is-so-funny/

Hmmm... may job opening pa kaya for maids? lol.

bAzAriSTa

2011-10-23T21:52:00.000+08:00

I've always wanted to sell my dishes.... and for this year... it came through!

I was so nervous at first! I have this fear - what if they don't like my cooking, etc, etc, etc, .... turns out my fear had no basis at all!!! yey!! Their feedback was great!!! And they even bought the second time around for take out! yippeee! My Joaquin even promoted Mama's food by going from booth to booth and shouting "Buy na kayo pasta ng Mama ko!" How cute!

My sisters and I shared a booth as well. She is selling kikay stuff while I was more on the baby stuff. Our parents were in full support! They were even our first customers! Hahahahaha! Papa just love my baked macaroni and he was the one who insisted that I start selling it. I guess I needed that little push from them... and it all paid off :)

We will be selling all Sundays until December 2011 :) See you at Foodtown Weekend Market!

HappY 5mOnThs JaCob!

2011-10-18T15:34:00.030+08:00

Instead of the traditional cupcakes, hubby and I decided to get a mini-cake for Jacob's 5th month celebration (read between the lines -- bitin sa amin ang cupcakes.lol)

We had a simple and sinful merienda celebration at Mcdonalds Libis

At 5 months, Jacob can do the following:

> roll-over or rather tumble over and over

> focus and grab objects (especially colorful ones)

> babble non-stop

> say MAMA!!!! <---- yup! his 1st word!

> giggle and laugh when surprised

> recognize faces ( in Tagalog, nangingilala)

> scratches right part of his head (which is becoming a funny habit. lol)

> sits upright, with support

> drools big time, which I read is his body's way of preparing for the introduction of solid foods

> grab his feet! (sabay subo! lol lol lol)

jaCobee

2011-10-12T11:12:00.001+08:00

I love this stage in a baby's life. When they learn how to smile and giggle non-stop :)

I can't wait for him to start talking! hahahaha :)

A LegeNdAry VisionAry diEs

2011-10-06T11:04:00.000+08:00

RIP Steve Jobs.

WeLcoME to ChRisTianiTy JaCob!

2011-10-02T13:54:00.000+08:00

At last! My baby is baptized!

We got this ensemble from Periwinkle Eastwood. It was so nice! Jacob looked like a mini-prince.

The Baptism rites was held at Sto. de San Jose Greenhills. We opted for a private baptism, since we never liked the idea and the feeling of maraming kasabay. The priest was prompt and kind. The rite was simple yet very solemn. The only irk we had was the parking!

The reception was held at the clubhouse of Riverfront Residences, Pasig. Would you believe that the rent was only P5,000.00?? Although the parking area was ridiculously far, the newness and the cleanliness of the place made it all ok.

The place was dressed up by my good friend Jacque. Due to prescribed budget, we wanted to have really simply balloons (as in ung naka-tali lang sana sa chairs.lol), but to our amazement, Jacque did more than we asked for and didn't even charge a cent! It's her Christening gift for the little boy. The tarpaulin design was c/o of my cousin Sarie and the printing c/o Ninong Robert, again, their gifts for the little boy.

The awesome food was by Tita Mely, which the guests raved about.

Entertainment was provided by no less than our dearest Joaquin, who did a Michael Jackson impromptu presentation with King, followed by a slightly for-adult-only dance and song number by cousin Pao and my brother RC. Thank God for the talented Santiagos! whoowooot!

And the crowd went wild! hahahaha :)

Moments and gatherings like this make me appreciate our families all the more.

Welcome to the Christian World Little One! We love you very much!

BoYs pLaY

2011-09-26T13:23:00.000+08:00

This is our scenario on most nights...

I have grown tired of reprimanding them for ruining the sheets(tigermom here. lol)... but then I realized... if you can't beat them... might as well join them. Hahahaha! And your crankiness will disappear if you watch them play and here them laugh :)

MommY C TuRns 92!

2011-09-19T16:34:00.000+08:00

Our dearest lola (but we all call her Mommy Conse) turned 92. As with her past celebrations, we make sure that we really prepare for it, for every year is sure is a milestone.

The celebration took place at VVI with the theme Willing-Willy, since Mommy is such a fan of Willie Revillame (I know right! lol). And we got her a Casino inspired cake *wink*.

Her birthday celebration started with a special mass to thank God first and foremost.

After a hearty lunch, the program started wherein the families prepared presentations for our dearest Lola.

We all wore same custom shirts! Cute noh :) and for the ending presentation. My kuya cousins wrote a song for our dearest lola expressing how much she is loved :) ... which brought tears to everyone.

Then the blowing of the cake...

We love you Mommy! I wish I can be just like you when I reach your age.... surrounded with love :)

HappY 4mOnThs JaCob!

2011-09-18T00:48:00.000+08:00

Our wonderbaby turns 4 months today!

At four months, Jacob does the following:
> turn over
> plays with his saliva (lol)
> thumb sucks (so like his Kuya)
> giggles and laughs when surprised
> coos and shrieks (i think he is so fond of hearing his own voice)
> recognizes faces (especially Mama's!)
> focuses on objects specially moving ones
> gulps down 5ozs of milk in one sitting!
> rubs his nose non-stop on your shoulder when he finds it difficult to sleep! (ay bad habit na!)

Did I mention that he now weighs 8.6kgs.... yes, he is overweight na! lol.

We love you Baby J! Can't wait to witness more amazing milestones in your life.

ZombAdIngS!

2011-09-13T00:14:00.001+08:00

I never was a fan of Tagalog movies… I guess I had this notion that Tagalog films are with the likes Nora Aunor, Lito Lapid, Robin Padilla, Vic Sotto, and were they usually would end up singing in a beach or somewhere. No offense, but not really a big fan of them.

It all changed when I watched Eugene Domingo’s Kimi Dora… I laughed my head off, and became an overnight fan as well. Yes, I'm a sucker for comedy.

Then Zombadings came along.. it created a buzz that it was a darn good no-brainer laugh your ass off movie. My friends who already saw it were raving. I desperately wanted to watch it! How could you lose if the cast is composed of the great Roderick Paulate, Janice de Belen, John Regala, etc... thing is Hubby hates Tagalog movies, so I had no one to watch it with.

It was a good thing Ate Sabel heard the buzz regarding Zomabdings as well and was curious to see the film too... we ended up having a movie date together! lol! It was our first ever bonding adventure!

The movie was hilarious! Though there were some OA parts, but there were more hits than misses. But more than the movie, I really did enjoy watching the movie with Ate Sabel... and I'm so looking forward to our next movie date. :) Happy Happy Birthday!!!

As I waTch yOu sLeeP...

2011-09-11T00:30:00.002+08:00

Dearest Kuya Joaquin and Baby Jacob,

Tears swell up my eyes as I watch you both sleep. I am so blessed and full of gratitude to the Lord for giving me such beautiful creations. I pray that I be the best mother you two so deserve.

Kuya, they say that firstborns will always have a special place and now I know why. It is indescribable, but to Moms out there who have more than 1 child, I do understand that firstborns are indeed special. They hold the ‘firsts’ in our lives. The first anticipation, the first birth, the first experience, the first smile, the first tooth, the first haircut, the first word, first potty training… everything at its ‘first’. Thank you Kuya for that.

I touched your thick dark hair, I stroked your chubby cheek, I kissed your cute little nose… Kuya wag ka muna lumaki… Sana ganyan ka lang.

Baby J, they say that babies are bundles of joy… and you sure are! I wish I had you sooner, but nevertheless, I am thankful that I have you. Whatever I missed from your Kuya, I am savoring it with you. Whatever I learned from your Kuya, I am applying it to you. Thank you Bunso for making me a better Mom.

I touched your perfectly shaped head, I stroked your soft cheek, I kissed your cute little nose… Baby dahan-dahan lang sa paglaki… Sana ganyan ka lang.

I watch you both sleep and I am filled with love.

JacOb's 1sT ToY!

2011-08-28T01:18:00.003+08:00

Thank you Tita TinTin for my 1st ever toy bracelet. It looks so yummy, cn I eat it too? Tita, I love it when you drop by the house to check on me and Kuya. Mama loves also all the Serenitea you bring her (lol)! I love you Tita TinTin with all my fats este heart! - Jacob

HapPy ThRee mOnThs JacoB!!!

2011-08-18T01:08:00.000+08:00

Thank you Lord for healing Jacob! and at three months he now weighs 7.705kg!

> He can now roll on one side. (oo hirap na hirap pa, dahil sa weight niya. lol)

> Drinks 3.5ozs every 2 hours

> Giggles!

> and is extremely fascinated and finds it fulfilling to suck on all of his fingers. lol.

geT weLL sOon babies :(

2011-08-10T00:53:00.000+08:00

My babies are sick and it's driving me insane!!! First it was papa, then yayas, then Kuya, and finally Baby J!

Both Kuya and Baby were given antibiotics, which I really didn't like, but if it will hasten their recovery, then so be it. But what really tore my heart was when Jacob goes through a coughing episode and had to use a nebulizer to ease the passage of phlegm. I feel so helpless! Sana ako na lang nagkasakit, wag lang sila.

Please Lord... heal my babies.

mR. jOneS

2011-08-01T19:17:00.000+08:00

Tin and B's favorite southern comfort food :) We finally got to taste it...

It's a good thing it was raining cats and dogs or else, my dad would be dragging the whole family to Mercato Centrale. lol. No offense, I'm sure the food i selection is superb there, but I have in tow two babies with colds plus my shoes are not eager to encounter the squishy mud! lol (ang arte!)

Their Caesar Salad was ok, nothing really to rave about... but their Truffle Mac and Cheese was to die for!!! So sinfully Y-U-M-M-Y!

Their tapa overload is a must try! It is so buttery-tasteful-beefy right combination of saltiness and sweetness. I forgot the sandwich dish that my dad ordered but he said it was ok.

Their deep fried dishes such as the Fried Chicken and Fish and Chips are typical tasting and what fried foods should taste like. One thing though, they had a clean taste to it, and not of 'old' oil, plus I liked that both the Chicken and Fish were tender and weren't overcooked.

Angus burger was wiped out by hubby within15minutes. lol.

ToAsT BoX

2011-08-01T16:59:00.000+08:00

I am the unofficial designated wedding coordinator untill Tin and B finds one (in-short, pansamantagal. lol). Our first mission was to get Edsa Shangrila, Garden Ballroom... which we did! I won't go into the details of how much and all... B might be reading my blog, and baka mahimatay pag naalala niya kung gano kalaki ang naging butas ng bulsa niya sa babayaran na downpayment. lol.

Anyhow, after a financially draining afternoon, Tin and B dragged me and the boys to a little snack restaurant named Toast Box.

I love the shabby chic ambiance! It's like you want to bring your girl friends along, have coffee, and catch up--- all day long!

Joaquin and King had a blast with their Milo Dinosaur (talk about Choco drink overload. lol) and Kaya Toast.

While I had Milk Tea, Floss Thick Toast, and latest discovery... soft boiled egg mixed with a little soy sauce... yummy!!!

It was a satisfying snack... if you are really hungry, then Toast Box is no the place for you (specifically, not for my husband). lol

HapPy biRThday sisTer deAr

2011-07-29T09:55:00.000+08:00

Not only is she beautiful on the outside... but as well as the inside

She turned 28 today and the first thing she did was to thank the Lord for another year by treating the kids at the orphanage (Missionaries of Charity - Good Shepherd) to an all out Jollibee party.

The Lord showered her with so many blessings this year and the past. She never flaunted it, nor bragged it, nor kept it all to herself. What she did... she shared it.

Happy Happy birthday Sister dear. You so deserve all the blessings, fortunes, and the kindness the universe is giving you. You are one of a kind and I'm truly lucky to have a sister like you. I love you!

TinELLa iS enGagEd!!

2011-07-27T17:10:00.000+08:00

"Sa hinaba-haba man ng prusisyon.... sa Simbahan din ang tuloy"

B has been courting my sister for the loooooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnggggggggeeeeessssstttttttt time. He has been truned down several times and even resulted to a conflict between my brother Mikko (because B and Mikko have been bestfriends since grade school at LSGH). It didn't sit well with Mikko that his buddy has a thing for his sister. In layman terms...'ti-nalo mo kapatid ko' -- something to this effect. Mikko and Tin didn't speak for almost two years. But after much talk and the years passed na rin... the two reconciled and everything has turned out well.

So what do I think? .... I am sooooo happy for my sister. B is just the perfect, perfect gentleman. I have absolutely nothing bad to say about him. I'm not kidding when I say that he is SOBRANG BAIT. My family loves him to death. Imagine this, my dad can actually make 'lambing' to B, and accompany him to as far away as Bulacan, just the two of them! I applaud B for the compassion and love he has for our family, and I can't wait for him to be formally part of our family.

mY Go To...

2011-07-24T16:18:00.007+08:00

Web definitions

(Go to people) These are people you have confirmed are willing to be a reference for you and are open to being called upon at anytime, no matter how often. It is a good practice to have two to three references available as “go to people” at all times. ...

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Idiom Definitions for 'Go-to guy'

A go-to guy is a person whose knowledge of something is considerable so everyone wants to go to him or her for information or results. http://www.usingenglish.com/reference/idioms/go-to+guy.html

go-to person n.

a person you can go to for help, advice or information

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Everybody has his or her own go to person. For me, it's no other than my Ate Betty.

I have lost track on the countless of times I've called Ate Betty... and I've lost track as well on how many times those calls saved me (hahaha, ano ba, hindi naman obvious na palagi ko kailangan ng savior. lol).

Fondest memory with Ate Betty... Joaquin was confined due to high grade fever. Ate Betty called and asked what Joaquin and I wanted for breakfast. Of course, I was shy and said there was hospital food naman, but she insisted, so I gave in. I requested Jollibee longanisa meal with Hot Chocolate while it was Chicken Joy for Joaquin. After a while I realized that I forgot to request for ketchup (yes, I can't eat the Jollibee longanisa without the ketchup. Ang arte ko noh! lol. request na nga lang, ang arte pa! lol). But again, Ate Betty was to the rescue... she had Mcdo ketchups in her purse! lol! lol! lol! It was the best breakfast Joaquin and I had that week. As in sarap na sarap kami ni Joaquin, after all that hospital food.

Another unforgettable memory. (Background: I'm the last person you want to be with if you got lost. In short, I'm sooooo bad with directions and memorizing roads. As in!)
I was on my way to Hyatt for my OJT (husband can't drive me that day), via my usual C5-Buendia route, when I noticed a road block nearing Buendia flyover--- it was closed due to weekend marathon (damn you runners! lol)! Beads of sweat began forming at my forehead, my heart beating double time, and my lips getting dry... panic mode!!! I didn't know what alternative route to take!!! And to think I'm in the Makati area, where the notorious MAPSA(another post regarding traumatic experience with MAPSA) patrols the area. I checked my watch, it read 5:35am, crossed my fingers, dialed Ate Betty's number, and prayed she wasn't on the treadmill... after 4 rings... she answers!!! Whoooppeee!!!! She successfully guided me to Hyatt via Edsa route. Yes, I'm telling you, she is a human road map. Again, it was Ate Betty to the rescue.

Most importantly, there are things only sister-inlaws understand especially if their husbands have similar qualities (disclaimer: may be good or challenging... wont expound but is FACTUAL. lol). Through it all, Ate Betty was there 1001%.

Happy Happy Birthday Ate!!! Thank you for being my Go-To-Ate. Halabshue!

KinG and MikKo CeLebrATE biRThdAys

2011-07-20T16:23:00.000+08:00

Last July 17, our dearest King turned 9 years old. How time flies and everyone misses Auntie Susan, King's late mom, all the more. I am happy that our family is now considered as the custodian of King and that my Dad treats him like his own.

We had a simple birthday lunch with the Santiagos at Ugong. We made it a point that every immediate member of our family was there. It serves as a statement that King is a PART of our family. And I made sure that he had a darn ass Ben10 cake.

We love you King! No matter what, you will always be our baby.

Two days after... off to Bonchon for Mikko's 30th birthday! (Yes, I believe Bonchon has become the Cordova's place to be. lol)

Jacob even got a surprise from Tita TinTin, his very first jacket! And boy was he soooo cute in it :) My wish for my dear brother.... that he may be reunited with his adorable daughter, Arabella... and that he may finally settle down and have a family of his own.

Belle now 6 years old :)

Jacob aT 2monThs

2011-07-18T16:53:00.000+08:00

Happy Happy 2monThs sweeTheaRT!

At two months, our wonder baby weighs 6.5kg and measures 62cm. He can do the following:
- gulps down 4ozs of milk per session (i know right!)
- wears a medium size diaper (at 2 months pa lang! you do the math)
- croones and aaahhhs while looking at you (in tagalog, they say marunong ng makipaghuntahan at humuhuni)
- sleeps 3-4 hours straight compared when he was a month old
- stays awake longer compared when he was a month old
- can focus on objects especially if its colored black, red, or white
- gets rattled / reacts to loud noises
- smiles often

Happy 2 months sweetheart! We you very much!

uLTiMaTe HaRry poTTeR pArTy!!!

2011-07-16T21:54:00.000+08:00

Our wedding coordinator, turned good friend, Clarice, celebrated her daughter's birthday and son's baptism with a Harry Potter theme. Boy it sure is a plus factor if your Mom has connections with wedding industry suppliers... what a party!

http://www.eventsbyclarice.com/clarice/2011/07/21/harry-potter-parteeeee/

Joaquin had a blast!

To think, his face was like this at the start of the party...

Now, to think of a theme for Jacob's 1st birthday party!!! Exciting!

JoAquin's nEw RidE

2011-07-14T13:15:00.001+08:00

Since he has been a very good Kuya to little Jacob, Hubby and I decided to reward Kuya with his very first bicycle!

Kuya was so exicted and elated, that he rode his new ride from the department store to the parking area. Hahahahahaha! Heads turned and some even pointed at him, commenting at how cute he was!

o dba complete with plastic pa ung bike. lol.

Hubby made Joaquin promise that he can only ride his bicycle if he is wearing his helmet. Safety first!

O dba I told you hanggang parking area! Hahaha!

I can still remember Joaquin's first bicycle experience at home.

Dearest Joaquin,

Mama was just supposed to buy birthday gifts at Toy Kingdom, nothing more, nothing less. But then you wandered off to the bicycle station... and your eyes locked in at this Ben10 bicycle. From that moment on... it was love at first sight for you.

You wanted that bike so bad that you didn't stop nagging me and Papa. That was how determined you were. When you wanted something, then so be it. Did you throw a tantrum? No you didn't anak, you just had this way of convincing us... with the way you plead plus those sad eyes... Hahaha! You had us! So we gave in (plus we reasoned that you have been a good kuya to Jacob).

As you ride your bike away, Mama got teary eyed... you're so big and independent. For now, you have training wheels... but give or take a couple of months... you'll be on your own.. no more training wheels.

SO papa and I will treasure every moment spent with you... every moment that you'll be needing us still.

We love you so much anak.

TaMaGoYa

2011-07-12T12:04:00.000+08:00

Around 6:00pm, I got a call from my sister Tin, instructing me to get ready because she will be picking me up for an Impromptu dinner at Tamagoya, known for their unbelievable Ramen.

Picture grabbed from Our Awesome Planet Website by Anton Diaz

Menu was simple and straight to the point. And you know what's awesome? Prices were cheap! and the servings were big! (for their prices).

Everybody was present! When I mean everybody.... Jacob was there as well. Just couldn't leave home without my little siopao in tow :)

For starters, we got the Pork Yakisoba, which was so yummy! The noodles were aldente and we didn't find it greasy unlike others. I was pleasantly surprised with their Gyoza, so far the best gyoza I've tasted. I usually shy away from gyoza since my first traumatic taste of it about 8years ago, but Tamagoya rekindled my curiosity and taste for it.

We got Kuya Joaquin Kara-age which was crunchy, tasty, and yummy. Ther serving was big that's why Kuya wasn't able to finish it. Good thing, Papa was there to the rescue. Haha!

Hubby got the Curry Ramen, which was tasty but he felt it lack more 'curry' power. TinTin and I got their besteller, Gomoku Ramen, which was sooooooooo good!!! The broth was thick and sooooooo tasty! The noodles were just right! Hubby loved it as well, and vowed will order when we come back.

Bindoy and Rc got the spicy Stamina Ramen. The spice level was above average, which left them sweating for more. lol.... Resulting to a 'simot-sarap' experience.

We will definitely go back for more!

HaPpy biRThday LoLa LindA!

2011-07-06T22:57:00.003+08:00

I'm blessed to have a great mother-in-law. No kidding. Not everyone gets along with their in-laws, and I'm proud to say, I'm not one of them. Mama Linda and I are not that close but I am slowly building a relationship with her. For starters, whenever my husband does a 'boo-boo' towards me, I call her to make 'sumbong'. Would she meddle and get in-between? Nope she wont, but lending me an ear is more than enough to cheer me up. More often than not, we would end up laughing our heads off - thinking of ways on how to get back/even with my husband. lol. How cool is that!

So for her birthday, I urged hubby to fetch her and treat her to lunch...

Of course, the one thing that would make her day... her grandchildren. So I made sure that Joaquin and Jacob will be with their Lola on her special day.

So how well do I know my Mama Linda? These are the things I've observed and I know that this list will grow longer as the years progress...

1. She eats like a bird. And usually it's my hubby who finishes her meals. Haha!
2. She loves to cook for her family. And I love that she shares her recipes with me. I love her potroast!
3. Conti's is one of her favorite restaurants. (This is where we treated her for lunch).
4. She's most likely to be asleep by 8am and awake by 3am.
5. She's a certified 'ginawin'.
6. Her term of endearment to her boys is "Noy".
7. She loves her daily dose of showbiz chismis. So if you need any updates, call her. Haha!
8. She jogs every morning at a nearby university.
9. She has a solid barkada of almost 30 plus years. Their friendship is unbelievable.
10. Her sons are all certified Mama's boys (this is in a positive light). They are closer (confides and calls her every now and then) to her compared to their Dad. And I wish Joaquin, Jacob, and I would have the same relationship.

Happy Happy Birthday Mama Linda! Thank you for all the kindness and patience. We love you po!

HapPy FaTher's daY 2011

2011-06-18T22:55:00.000+08:00

Celebrated Father's day by treating Papa at Yellowcab Eastwood.

Food.. food.. glorious food! (hey, i need all the fat I can, after all, I am breastfeeding. lol)

I love that my siblings and I are able to treat our parents on such special occasions. After what they have given and sacrificed for us, making them feel special and treating them once in a while (sana nga every now and then -- kulang pa rin sa lahat ng ginawa nila para sa aming magkakapatid), is a must.

Happy Happy Father's day Papa! Thanks for being the best dad to us and a loving lolo to Joaquin and Jacob.

KuYa JoaQuin meETs jAcoB

2011-05-21T16:03:00.001+08:00

For months we have been prepping Kuya Joaquin of the role he is to play once Baby Jacob arrives. Our greatest fear perhaps is that Kuya J might reject Baby J, or worse, Kuya J will feel hatred and jealously towards Baby J. Every night Hubby and I would talk to Kuya J telling him how important it is to be a loving, protective Kuya to Baby J, furthermore, we would let Kuya J talk and sing to Baby J (still in my tummy) every night.

When the big day finally arrived, I was praying hard that everything would go well...

Dearest Kuya Joaquin,

Anak, today was the big day! You finally met your brother Jacob. Papa and I were anxiously waiting for you, since you were sleeping at Kingsville with Lola Vi for the past days now, and thinking as to what your reaction would be when you will finally see Jacob.

An excited knock on our door, combined with a loud strong voice "Mama! Papa! Im here!", confirmed your arrival. Papa opened the door, you peeked your head first, then stormed in straight towards me. I stopped you in your tracks and pointed to where your brother was. Your eyes popped wide open, stared at Jacob, then stared back at me, while mouthing the word "Jacob", with much delight in your face.

Then as if there were no other people in the room, your whole attention was locked in on Jacob and Jacob alone. You can't stop staring and touching your brother. Papa and I were so delighted and happy! I am so proud of you Anak.

Papa and I knew right then and there that you will be a great loving Kuya to Baby J, and that you will protect and love your brother no matter what. Thank you Anak.

Now, the only thing left to do is to teach you Kuya to handle and hold Jacob as delicately as possible. Sometimes in your state of excitement, you tend 'na mangigil' towards Jacob. Hahaha! No worries anak, I know Jacob knows your intentions :)

HeLLo JacOb!

2011-05-18T10:58:00.009+08:00

Continuous contractions started at 2:00am. I was hesitant whether to wake up hubby or just wait until the morning since I wasn't feeling any pain and there was no bloody show nor watery discharge, but I heard that 2nd ( and onwards) babies have the tendency to be born way faster than the first, so I decided to wake up hubby then and there.

We arrived at Medical City at around 3:30am , I was first ushered in the pre-labor room where they checked my vitals, the baby's, and monitored my contractions. My contractions were 7-8 minutes apart and I was 4cm dilated with 70% effacement, so the doctors decided that it was time. My husband was ordered to get a room while they prepared the Lamaze room (note: I didn't do Lamaze but I wanted the use of the Lamaze room so that hubby can be with me). I was wheeled in the Lamaze room at exactly 4:40am

Hubby chillaxing at the Lamaze room while I was watching the television.

At around 7:00am my contractions were 2-4 minutes apart, but they were surprised that I wasn't feeling any pain at all. They even reminded me that I can have the Epidural anytime I wanted, but the smug pride in me insisted that "nah, kaya ko pa and wala naman kaya pain".... but by 7:30am I was cursing and shouting for Epidural. lol.

With my first born Joaquin, Epidural was administered to me at an early time that's why I didn't feel any pain at all. But with this second pregnancy, since I delayed the Epidural... Wow! Pain is an understatement... It's the severest dysmenorrhea one can imagine combined with a knock-out lower back pain. UNBELIEVABLE. I salute those Mommies who are able to give birth without any anesthesia at all.

At 8:30am, I was fully dilated. The resident doctors and nurses scrambled to prep me up for the delivery.

Doctors and nurses prepping me up for the delivery

After 3 pushes (im not kidding, 3 pushes were all it took)...at exactly 9:07am,Wednesday,May 18, 2011

Baby Jacob weighing 6.15lbs and measuring 51cm. Our first picture with Jacob.

Hello baby Jacob!

Thank you Lord for a safe delivery and for a healthy baby!

HappY Mom's dAy!

2011-05-08T15:55:00.003+08:00

This is rather a late post.. As you could imagine, I barely have time to have a decent bath these days. Kailangan palagi mabilisan, especially that Jacob is such a voracious (lol! what a term to use) feeder.

We treated Mama at a nearby Sushiya restaurant since she has to come home asap to Papa, who was down with the flu. Mama has always been like that, will think of others first, even though this should be a special day for her.

And now that I am a Mom as well... It is true what they say... you'll love your parents more... much much more. Happy Mom's day Mama! I love you so much!

iT's Papa's TuRn!

2011-05-03T11:00:00.055+08:00

Papa turns 33yrs old today... and the challenge... to spend P1,500 or below... hahahaha

As any other birthdays, we started it by hearing mass at Christ the King Church, Greenmeadows. We wanted to eat at Bonchon, but since it's a weekday and rush hour, that idea was scratched. We decided it was best to go to Eastwood instead, especially of my contractions would progress.

We ended up eating at Kogi... which was ... money well spent! Yummy!

Their California Maki was one of the best we've tasted and their Tempura is not what we usually call as 'puro harina' and boy was it crunchy! Joaquin was happy and content with the Tempura alone (the fact that this is his favorite Japanese food).

Their Grilled Pork Bulgogi was a plus for us as well! It was soft and nit rubbery in texture. The lettuce that came with it was fresh and crunchy as well! Now, if there was one disappointment.. it was their Korean Fried Chicken! My gashness! Gravy na lang... Jollibee na! I guess we were expecting a 'unique' Korean taste to it.

After dinner, we let Joaquin play at Timezone since he's been a good boy all throughout the week, while we had a nice coffee time at Starbucks... there's still change left from the Kogi dinner. (o dba P1,500 challenge talaga. hahaha)

Happy Happy Birthday Hunnie! I pray to God we have more fruitful years ahead :) Thanks for being a good husband and father. We love you!

My BoY TuRns 4!

2011-04-24T09:44:00.000+08:00

Dearest Joaquin,

You sure are one well loved little boy. The original plan anak was for you to have a simple celebration at Sydney house, but due to Mama’s recent hospitalization, we opt to just hear mass and eat a quiet lunch at your favorite, Bonchon. But your Lolas, Aunt and Uncle wouldn't hear of it.

First we heard mass at Christ the King, but we weren't able to finish it since Mama had major contractions, so we had to rush home. After a while, we transferred to Kingsville where Lolo Rey, Lola Vi, Ninang Tin, Ninong Mikko, Tito Bindoy, and Tita Maan prepared a feast for you! They even bought lechon for you! And all of the Santiagos were there to celebrate :)

Then for celebration #2, off we went to Sydney house to celebrate with the Versozas and Cordovas.

There you got the Ben10 cake you so wanted and Lola Linda even made a banner for you!

Then it was opening of gifts! You got a humongous water gun from Lolo Rey among others and the ultimate Nerf Gun from Papa and Me :)

We can't stop thanking both sides of the family anak. Their love for you is so overwhelming that it made Mama cry with happiness. Seeing how happy you were is more than enough. We love you anak.

HoLy WeEk

2011-04-21T15:27:00.001+08:00

Being a devout Catholic, our family is one to strictly observe the Holy week. For starters, meat was off the menu, which was fine for us, since Tintin had loads of Tuna belly and Tuna ‘panga’ from her recent Davao trip.

Joaquin relaxing in the bahay kubo while Manang is busy with the grill

Tuna panga and Tuna Belly

Tuna Kilawin and Ensalada

Since I was on bed rest mode, I wasn’t able to join the 1^st procession on Holy Wednesday. But we let Joaquin join as as our representative. Lol. He didn’t walk though, he rode on the tri-bike all they way through! (daya!)

What I look forward to is the Visita Iglesia wherein our family targets at least 7 churches, which we successfully accomplished this year. I love to look at churches, especially how they dressed up their Holy Sacrament area. And before you react, no I didn’t go up and down the 7 churches; I was content staying in the car the whole time.

The last procession was on Good Friday, but sadly, due to my condition, we weren’t able to join. But on the bright side, I get to spend the whole day at home with my family.

More than just observing tradition, what I love and look forward to every year with Holy Week, is that with our busy schedules, the whole Cordova get to sit down, talk, bond, and just have a good time.

KanSi

2011-04-16T07:59:00.003+08:00

After hearing mass with the family, we were at a lost as where to eat. Choices were Causeway (but we just had Chinese yesterday), Bonchon (but sister just ate there earlier), and Sushiya (but Papa wasn’t in the Japanese mode), so we ended up trying out Kansi.

It’s a hole in a wall type of carinderia that boasts of their bulalo, which was damn good! Their secret? They put calamansi in the broth!

Hubby had 2 servings of rice! As he said, “sabaw pa lang, ulam na” hahaha. Little boy had a field day with their barbeque, which I find kind of tough and nothing to really rave about (Three sisters all the way!!!).

But on the other hand, I really liked their boneless bangus! One thing that you mus be careful with fish when cooking is that it has the tendency to easily dry out since it has about zero fat content, so timing and correct temperature are a must! With Kansi’s bangus ... it was perfect! Yummy!

SaTan's LeTTeR To wiLLie ReviLame

2011-04-12T17:44:00.000+08:00

I saw this post from our Mommy-group and I just can't resist posting it as well.

source: http://worldofalbert.blogspot.com/2011/04/satans-letter-to-willie-revillame.html?spref=fb

Dear Willie,

My son, it will just be a matter of time before our evil plan shall come into fruition. By proclaiming yourself as the savior of the poor, you shall lure humanity into the dark side. Despite the many setbacks you have encountered while accomplishing your wicked mission, you remain robust and unfazed. Critics and detractors are trying to pin you down. Our enemies are growing. But as long as you keep on doing evil deeds for my sake, I promise that I shall never let you be defeated. I shall never forget the many things you have done in my honor, my precious child.

I shall always remember the numerous MTRCB suspensions you had as a result of your crass behavior on tv. I shall always remember the two sexual harassment cases filed against you. With your promise of instant fortune, I shall always remember when you enticed hundreds of people to ULTRA which resulted in a mass grave. I shall always remember your part in the biggest scam on tv game show history. I shall always remember the monumental legal battle with your ex wife who accused you of battery. I shall always remember the desecration you did during the burial of a president. When your demands were not met by your former tv network, I shall always remember how you defied authority (like what I did to God...hehehe.) And just recently, I shall always remember when you perpetuated in mocking and taunting a crying child on national tv. With these, I am now seriously contemplating on making you my sole heir to the throne instead of Osama Bin Laden.

Blessed with charisma and a saccharine tongue, you have been the object of my watchful eyes since you were born. Years ago when you were just a struggling tv host, I visited you in your dream where I told you that the best way to amass wealth and fame in your country is by exploiting the poor. I instructed you to follow the legacy of my other child Adolf Hitler. Like the Fuhrer, your key to your rise to power is your ability to win mass support. The strategy to such is simple but effective. Over and over again, you just repeat what you wanted the people to believe. That is, your sole purpose in life is to help the poor and make them happy. Then you combine this with dramatic speeches, colorful production numbers and soap opera like charades in your tv program. Through these, you arouse their emotions. By moving the masses, you became their leader.

Since you came to power, the people saw many things in you that please them. True, your supporters know of your many wrongdoings and shenanigans. But being fanatics, they find it easy to close their eyes and continue their praises. Your ingenuity is designed to appeal to people's feelings rather than their ability to reason. For this, I admire you, my dear Willie. You have hypnotized many people and lured them into a frenzy of unimaginable loyalty. A great example of which, they even made you a multi-platinum recording star despite the crappy music and annoying voice. (Sorry son, as your father, I have to tell the truth sometimes. Plus I really cannot stand your songs.) Acting like a philanthropist, many poor people see you as their only hope. Yet, your clueless minions of fans never realize that as long as you play the role of a "Good Samaritan," the more you become rich. Bwahahaha!

I feel an overwhelming delight every time I watch your audience turn into greedy, materialistic and money hungry individuals with your mere presence. Definitely, these humans would do anything if you provide them with easy money. They would make fool of themselves on tv. They would cry in public. They would laugh at a child if you tell them to. Hell, they would even praise you asguwapo even if you look like Fanny Serrano. All for the sake of a few moolah. I take pride on the fact that you became a multi millionaire literally out of the tears of these poor people. In return, I promise to provide you with instruments to stir these people's emotions. I shall continue making many people live below the poverty line. I shall let more children suffer from mental retardation and let more lolos and lolas live longer so you can parade them in your tv show.

With your devoted supporters ever growing, it will not be an impossibility if one day you become the Philippine President. With such greater power, you can practice your evil ways in a wider scale. From the fiery pits of hell, you have all my love and support, my son. Together with your brothers Napoleon, Stalin and Hitler, we are cheering for you to do your best.

Your Father,
Lucifer

Nice one doc!

ThaNk God fOr GrandParenTs

2011-04-08T17:07:00.000+08:00

Since I’m now invalid until the end of pregnancy, my parents took charge in making sure that Joaquin enjoys the summer break. They picked up Joaquin and King and off they went to Star City!

Where Joaquin and Kuya King rode the carousel and the bump cars

Then they rode 2 kinds of roller coaster. Of course, it wouldn't be fun without their Ate Jen

Kiddie car and Ferris wheel ride... check!

Donald duck, Water Ride, Giant Ant... check!

Thank you Lolo Rey, Lola Vi, and Tito Rc! Joaquin had a great time! Looking forward to the next adventure! Love you much! -- Joaquin.

CloSe caLL

2011-04-05T16:58:00.004+08:00

I have to be more careful now. I just got discharge form Medical City where I stayed for 12 hours in the Intensive Maternal Unit and another 24 hours in a regular room. The diagnosis: Preterm labor contractions and threatened abortion. I am just on my 31st week and Baby J, in order to be declared healthy, should stay in my womb for another 6 weeks, the least. Apparently Baby J is in a way, too hurry to come out and see the world.

Funny, but I really believe Baby J is listening to his Kuya Joaquin.

You see, everynight before going to sleep Kuya Joaquin would talk to Baby J and his constant dialogue is “Baby labas ka na jan para play na tayo ni Kuya”. Hahahaha. Now we taught Joaquin to say, “Baby wag ka muna labas ha, hindi pa daw puede sabi ni Dra. Fuentes. Hindi pa tayo puede play ni Kuya”. Hahahaha!

ThE InVisibLe MoM

2011-03-15T22:22:00.001+08:00

SALUTE to ALL MOTHERS! This one is especially for YOU ALL. PRAISE GOD for all MOTHERS. Amen.

It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response, the way one of the kids will walk into the room while I'm on the phone and ask to be taken to the store.

Inside I'm thinking,'Can't you see I'm on the phone?' Obviously not; no one can see if I'm on the phone, or cooking, or sweeping the floor, or even standing on my head in the corner, because no one can see me at all. I'm invisible. The invisible Mom. Some days I am only a pair of hands, nothing more: Can you fix this ? Can you tie this? Can you open this??

Some days I'm not a pair of hands; I'm not even a human being. I'm a clock to ask, 'What time is it?' I'm a satellite guide to answer, 'What number is the Disney Channel?' I'm a car to order, 'Right around 5:30, please.'

I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the eyes that studied history and the mind that graduate d summa cum laude - but now they had disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again. She's going, she's going, she's gone!?

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of a friend from England . Janice had just gotten back from a fabulous trip, and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in. I was sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well. It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself. I was feeling pretty pathetic, when Janice turned to me with a beautifully wrapped package, and said, 'I brought you this.' It was a book on the great cathedrals of Europe . I wasn't exactly sure why she'd given it to me until I read her inscription: 'To Charlotte , with admiration for the
greatness of what you are building when no one sees.'

In the days ahead I would read - no, de vour - the book. And I would discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after which I could pattern my work: No one can say who built the great cathedrals - we have no record of their names. These builders gave their whole lives for a work they would never see finished. They made great sacrifices and expected no credit. The passion of their building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything.

A legendary story in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man, 'Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that will be covered by the roof, No one will ever see it. And the workman replied, 'Because God sees.'

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place. It was almost as if I heard God whispering to me, 'I see you, Charlotte. I see the sacrifices you mak e every day, even when no one around you does. No act of kindness you've done, no sequin you've sewn on, no cupcake you've baked, is too small for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral, but you can't see right now what it will become.

At times, my invisibility feels like an affliction. But it is not a disease that is erasing my life. It is the cure for the disease of my own self-centeredness. It is the antidote to my strong, stubborn pride.

I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see finished, to work on something that their name will never be on. The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing to sacrifice to that degree.

When I really think about it, I don't want my son to tell the friend he's bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, 'My Mom gets up at 4 in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand bastes a turkey for three hours and presses all the linens for the table.' That would mean I'd built a shrine or a monument to myself. I just want him to want to come home. And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend, to add, 'You're gonna love it there.'

As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if we're doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible women.

Great Job, MOM!

Share this with all the Invisible Moms you know... I just did.

HappY 32nd weddiNg aNniveRsaRy!

2011-03-10T09:28:00.041+08:00

Papa and Mama celebrated their 32nd wedding anniversary today, and like the Cordova way, no fuss, no frills. Papa's signature gesture as always, is a bouquet of flowers for Mama. I just love how Mama's face light up whenever Papa gives her flowers, after 32 years, Papa never fails to do that to Mama. (Oo inggit ako, I can't remember the last time I received flowers... but that's a different post. lol) They heard mass together and had a simple lunch at Kenny Rogers.

I wish my marriage would be just like my parents. Yes, they have had their ups and downs but still they persevered. Here are some things I so love about them:
1. They still hold hands when they go out.
2. Papa would always buy Mama pasalubong and vice versa.
3. They would go out on random dates without us knowing.
4. Mama makes sure Papa's needs and favorites are ready (like, there's always soup and fish for Papa since he avoids eating meat)
5. They look silly when they argue but way sillier when they make up.

Memorable encounters:
1. There was one point in their marriage that I really thought they would end up divorced (details too private, and yes, it was Papa's fault). Mama was already living with my grandparents, but Papa persevered. And it was the first and last time I saw Papa cry, begging for Mama to come home. Mama did come home after 3 weeks. And Papa was a changed man after that
2. During Ondoy, Papa made sure Mama was in a safe place away from Greenpark. Mama insisted that she be right besides Papa, but Papa wouldn't hear of it. Mama was in Ugong safe with her relatives, while Papa was at Greenpark with my brothers. Mama was in tears thinking of Papa and the boys, but Papa kept on assuring her that they can handle the situation and that he will feel at ease if she was in a safe place.
3. Mama rarely gets sick (I think that's a resiliency trait that Mother's share). So when she did get sick, it was a nasty one that she had to be hospitalized. You could see in Papa's face how worried and frightened he was. He kept on telling us "Anak ako na lang sana magkasakit wag lang Mama niyo. Anak ako na lang mawala, wag lang Mama niyo". "Tandaan niyo anak, mas mahalaga ang Nanay kaysa sa Tatay".

Happy anniversary Papa and Mama! We love you!

Papa shows us that he loves Mama more than us. Of course, he loves us to death as well, but it's a different level of love he has for my Mama. It doesn't upset us a bit but it makes us wants to have a marriage/relationship that they have. You see in a marriage, you started with just you and your spouse. Yes you will have children, but you don't own your children and they will grow up and have families of their own or lives of their own. In the end, when you look around, it will be just you and your spouse again.

Happy BiRThday MaMa and VieL!

2011-03-09T11:41:00.002+08:00

dMama's birthday celebration already started in the office where sales representatives from different pharmaceutical companies passed by, brought sumptuous cakes, and gave mama their greetings. For my part, I cooked massive trays (as in fiesta style na sa laki) of my baked macaroni which were all gone by lunch time. I've been prepping and cooking since last night but complaining and getting tired were not on my mind, because I'm doing all these for my Mom. period. Iba talaga if you're doing something for someone you so love.

As a tradition, the whole family hears mass together on a person's birthday. What made this birthday more special was the fact that it coincided with Ash Wednesday. After mass, the family went to where else... BONCHON! Yes, the Cordova Family is a sucker for Bonchon chicken.

O diba fried chicken lang masaya na kami :)

Then we had the cake blowing! For us Cordovas, a birthday is not complete without the cake and the candle! Make a wish!

Happy Happy Birthday Mama and Viel!!! Sure we only had chicken.... but it was the best darn chicken since it was eaten, shared, and enjoyed with family. We love you very very very much!

HaPPy BiRThday LoLo Ed!

2011-03-06T11:22:00.000+08:00

Father-in-law celebrated his 67th birthday with who else.... with the beloved family. Like with mine, no fuss, no frills, no nonsense... but with the people that matter the most.

Lolo Ed with darling Baby Razo

I love the way (Father-in-Law) would dote on his grandchildren, especially on Baby Razo. Usually all other grandchildren are afraid of his loud booming voice and 'maharot' ways (but that is just his way to show his affection), but Razo is the only grandchild who didn't mind FIL's ways. In fact Baby Razo just so loves his Lolo and is quite comfortable to snuggle in Lolo's great big arms.

Happy Happy Birthday Lolo Ed! We love you!

Crazy abouT pEns

2011-03-01T15:50:00.000+08:00

I've always had a fetish for pens. My oldest pen is my 10-year old Hello Kitty mini-pen set that my Mom bought me at then Gift Gate VirraMall. It doesn't write anymore, but still, it holds priceless memories. Ever since I was a little girl, pens were a source of comfort. I see it as a way out. I pick up my pen, grab my journal, and let time pass me by. I can write on any journal but I can't use just any type of pen. The pen has to match what my emotional status is. Lol. Call it an OC freaky trait, but that is just how I am.

But ever since Ondoy, I lost my pen collection (save the lone Hello Kitty pen set) and the urge to write on my journal. I wonder will I get my 'mojo' back. I chanced upon Muji store and saw their enticing pen displays. I tried one after the another until I felt the familiar tingling of my fingers. I found the right pen. I should have bought it since it was just P55.00 but I got distracted by what I can't recall (most probably Joaquin and one of his 'muntik ng makabasag' episodes), and had to go out of the store. I went back the other day only to find out that the pen I like is completely sold out and would take a month for the new batch to arrive. Grrrr... talk about getting my 'mojo' back and losing it the second time.

But I am patient. I'll check out Muji next month and hopefully my pen is there. Wish me Luck.

Crazily yours. lol.

Joaquin's FiRsT FieLdTriP!

2011-02-24T14:02:00.000+08:00

I couldn't sleep! I was the one who was really excited with Little Boy's (LB) fieldtrip! It's an understatement to say that I overpacked and overbought goodies for the trip! Hahaha! But what the heck , my philosophy behind this is that 'buti lang sumobra kesa naman magkulang', and I believe it paid off.

I woke up at exactly 5:40am, I gently whispered to LB that it's field trip day and to my surprise, without even a hint of grogginess, he jumped out of bed! He was that excited as well. Hahaha!

LB was the 1st one out of the house! but the last on the bus since Papa had a hard time waking up. lol.

First stop was the Aereospace Museum at Clark Pampanga, where the kids were exposed to the actual old planes that were used by the soldiers and I think others were left behind by the Americans. But kids will be kids, they didn't bother much with the airplanes and instead made a beeline to the adjacent playground. Hahaha!

Papa and Mama were more excited to have their pictures taken with the planes. lol.

While the kids were just soooo happy and content at the playground. Ayaw na umalis nung iba. lol.

Then off to Nayong Pilipino where the kids were exposed to replicas of significant structures like the Borasoain church, the houses of Emilio Aguinaldo and Jose Rizal, and the Ifugaos and their way of life. This is where we also had lunch. Nayong Pilipino is a great avenue to expose children to the Filipino culture but one thing that sort of turned us off was the fact that everything needs to be paid for such as the use of tables and the restroom.

Next stop was Zoocobia where kids get to interact and feed the animals... highlight for the kids was the giant slides!!! The kids and even Teacher Ryzza went balistic over the slides and rode them over and over again. hahahaha :)

Just like us parents, Yaya Jen enjoyed every minute of the trip especially the slides with her alaga.

Last stop was Paradise Ranch where kids get to ride on the boats, feed the fishes and ducks, see the Butterfly farm, and feed the Ostrich :)

LB was so tired from the day's events and adventures that he couldn't walk any further... good thing Papa was there to carry him back to the car and back home :)

Until the next field trip! :)

iT's a .... BoY!!!

2011-02-18T00:01:00.001+08:00

Yes it's a boy! And thank you Lord that he is healthy :)

And now the search for the name begins! :)

HoW To LovE yOuR huSbAnd

2011-02-15T23:52:00.000+08:00

I got this from Van's Blog. Though it maybe quite challenging for some. Hahaha. It's worth the try. Happy hearts day yesterday!

HOW TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND MORE

Discuss this list with your husband. Ask him to check the ones most meaningful to him and then arrange them in order of importance to him. Use this list as a basis for learning his views. Your relationship can be greatly strengthened as you use these suggestions.

1. Respectfully communicate with him.

2. Let him know he’s important to you.

3. Purposefully try to understand his feelings ¬even when you disagree with him.

4. Show interest in his friends giving him some time with them if they’re trust-worthy.

5. Let go of the small stuff. We all have annoying habits and preferences that are different from our spouse’s. (Dave Ramsey)

6. Tell him you both love him AND like him.

7. Either show interest in his hobbies or allow him space to participate freely. (Dave Ramsey)

8. Protect his dignity on a daily basis.

9. Be tender with him realizing he has feelings also.

10. Foster an atmosphere of laughter in your home. Look for ways to laugh together.

11. Try not to make sudden major changes without discussion and giving him time to adjust.

12. When you go out on a date together don’t bring up problems; ¬have fun instead.

13. Focus on what he’s doing right, instead of focusing so often on the negatives.

14. Show interest in what he feels is important in life.

15. Give him special time with you apart from the children.

16. Recognize that the first few minutes after a spouse comes home often sets the stage for how the rest of the evening will go. So try to make the first few minutes a positive experience. (And then ease into the negative if it’s necessary.)

17. Give him half an hour to unwind after he gets home from work. Your evenings will be much more enjoyable. (Dave Ramsey)

18. Don’t allow any family member to treat him disrespectfully. Be the one to defend him to any family member that dishonors his place as your husband.

19. Compliment him often.

20. Be creative when you express your love, both in words and in actions.

21. Talk with him about having specific family goals for each year to work on to achieve together so you will both feel closer to each other as a marital team.

22. Don’t over commit yourself. Leave time for him.

23. Extend God’s grace to him and be forgiving when he offends you.

24. Find ways to show him you need him.

25. Give him time to be alone. (This energizes him to reconnect at other times.)

26. Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be humble. Peel away your pride.

27. Defend him to those who disrespectfully talk about him. Remember that love protects (1 Corinthians 13:7).

28. Respect his desire to do well¬; not his performance.

29. Rub his feet or neck, or scratch his back after a hard day.

30. Take time for the two of you to sit and talk calmly (schedule it when necessary).

31. Initiate going out on romantic outings (when he’s not tired).

32. Email him when he’s at work, telling him how much you love him.

33. Surprise him with a fun gift of some kind that he’d really enjoy.

34. Express how much you appreciate him for working so hard to support the family.

35. Tell him how proud you are of him for who he is (giving him specific reasons).

36. Give advice in a loving way ¬ not in a nagging or belittling way.

37. Help your husband to be the Spiritual head at home (without “lording” it over him).

38. Reserve some energy for him so you’re not so tired when he wants you sexually.

39. Don’t expect him to do projects beyond his natural capabilities.

40. Pray for him to enjoy God’s best in life.

41. Take special notice for what he has done for you and the family.

42. Brag about him to other people both in front of him and even when he’s not there.

43. Share your feelings with him at appropriate times (but keep it brief when he’s tired: sometimes men can feel “flooded” by too many words).

44. Tell him 3 things you specifically appreciate about him.

45. Honor him in front of the children (differ respectfully in private when necessary).

46. Give him time to unwind for a little while after he comes home from work. Arrange ahead of time to take your “time out”, giving him a few minutes with the children.

47. Get up with him, even when he gets up earlier than you want to and pray with him. (Hopefully you can go back to sleep afterwards. If not, it’s a sacrifice worth making.)

48. Be his “help-mate” in whatever ways you sense he needs it.

49. Do some shoulder-to-shoulder activities with him (like watching a movie or taking a drive together) without talking. Sometimes men just like to BE with you and not talk.

50. Be a student of his ways so you show your love in ways he best comprehends it.

51. When your husband is in a bad mood give him time to recover. Don’t crowd him.

52. Help him to finish his goals, hobbies, or education when your see he needs it.

53. Treat him as if God has stamped on his forehead: “Handle With Care.”

54. Work to get rid of habits that annoy him.

55. Be kind and thoughtful to his relatives. Don’t make him choose between you.

56. Don’t compare his relatives with yours in a negative way.

57. Thank him for things he’s done around the house. (It means a lot to men).

58. Don’t expect credit for all you do for him. Do it as “unto the Lord.”

59. Make sure he agrees with everything important that you’re planning to do.

60. Do little things for him:¬ let him sleep in, bring him coffee and/or breakfast in bed, etc.

61. Don’t belittle his intelligence or be cynical in your words with him.

62. Initiate sex periodically. And respond more often.

63. Sometimes let him enjoy his day off work without having to “work” at home.

64. Get to the point in your discussions. Spare him details unless he wants them.

65. Discover his sexual needs.

66. Surprise him with a 15 second kiss when he gets home from work.

67. Wink at him from across the room when you’re out at a group function.

68. Give him the benefit of the doubt when he mis-speaks.

69. Don’t quarrel over words.

70. Be kind and courteous with him. (Don’t be kinder to strangers than to him.)

71. When things go wrong, instead of assessing blame, focus on how to do better.

72. As a kindness, don’t say, “I told you so.”

73. Try not to argue over money. Peacefully discuss future expenditures instead.

74. Take him out on dates, ¬pre-planning all of the details ahead of time.

75. Hold his hand and snuggle up close to him at times both at home and in public.

76. Praise his good decisions; minimize the bad ones.

77. Tell him you love him more often.

78. Put love notes in his pockets and brief case.

79. Sit with him while he’s watching TV ¬even if the program doesn’t interest you.

80. Don’t expect him to read your mind. (Families are spared grief when a husband isn’t required to read their wife’s mind despite the fact that the wife thinks he should.)

81. Periodically, give him time with his family alone.

82. Check with him before you throw away his papers and stuff. (He may view them as more important than you realize.)

83. Work to keep yourself in shape in every way.

84. Let him express himself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.

85. Carefully choose your words. Remember to “speak the truth in LOVE.”

86. Don’t criticize him in front of others¬, keeping his dignity intact.

87. Visit his childhood home with him.

88. When you’re angry, express it in respectful ways. Don’t give the silent treatment.

89. Pray for him.

90. Make him homemade soup when he’s sick.

91. Look your best¬; dress to honor him and make him proud to be seen with you.

92. Support him when someone tries to put him down. Be his best cheerleader.

93. Don’t disagree with him in front of the children.

94. Take him for a weekend get-away without the children.

95. Cheer his successes whether in business or in other areas of everyday living.

96. Graciously teach him how to demonstrate his love for you.

97. Give him coupons to redeem; ¬maybe for a back scratch or a shoulder rub.

98. Buy him a gift certificate to his favorite lunch spot and put it in his wallet.

99. Hide notes for him around the house where only he will find them.

100. Thank him for just being himself.

WhaT I LoVe AbouT sUNdAys

2011-02-13T22:51:00.000+08:00

Since it's Valentines the next day, the V family decided to explore the other side, (yey!!! nagsawa na rin si hubby sa Eastwood) which is Makati.

First stop was a off the charts gastronomic chicken encounter at Bonchon Greenbelt

Since it's Joaquin's cheat day, we allowed him to enjoy the chicken that he missed so much. hahaha!

Yes, it's definitely sarap to the bones!

After a tummy-filling encounter at Bonchon, the V family strolled from Greenbelt 1 until Greenbelt 5. We had to burn those nasty calories from the all those chicken! hahahaha :)

But little boy got tired and didn't like the idea of walking any further. lol.

But since he did walk for about 2 hours and even played at Timezone, we rewarded him with non-fat gelato at Ti-Amo (another to die for dessert!)

Which he finished in seconds. hahahaha :)

Thanks hunnie for a wonderful Sunday... looking forward to the next one :) I don't mind eating again at Bonchon! lol!

WhAT To dO iF You Can'T Find yOuR PasSion

2011-02-11T13:49:00.002+08:00

Sharing this wonderful article by the woman behind Eat, Pray, Love

What to Do if You Can't Find Your Passion
By Elizabeth Gilbert
Oprah.com | October 11, 2010

When Elizabeth Gilbert's passion went AWOL, she was shocked, bereft...and stumped—until she got a piece of advice that led her back to the thing she was meant to do.

I've always considered myself lucky that I do not have many passions. There's only one pursuit that I have ever truly loved, and that pursuit is writing. This means, conveniently enough, that I never had to search for my destiny; I only had to obey it. What am I here for? No problem! I'm here to be a writer, and only a writer, from my first cigarette to my last dying day! No doubt about it!

Except that two years ago, I completely lost my life's one true passion, and all my certainties collapsed with it.

Here's what happened: After the unexpected success of Eat, Pray, Love, I diligently sat down to work on my next project—another memoir. I worked hard, as always, conducting years of research and interviews. And when I was finished, I had produced a first draft that was...awful.

I'm not being falsely modest here. Truly, the book was crap. Worse, I couldn't figure out why it was crap. Moreover, it was due at the publisher.

Demoralized, I wrote a letter to my editor, admitting that I had utterly failed. He was nice about it, considering. He said, "Don't worry. You'll figure it out." But I did worry, because for the first time in my life, I had absolutely no passion for writing. I was charred and dry. This was terrifyingly disorienting. I couldn't begin to know who I was without that old, familiar fire. I felt like a cardboard cutout of myself.

My old friend Sarah, seeing me so troubled, came to the rescue with this sage advice: "Take a break! Don't worry about following your passion for a while. Just follow your curiosity instead."

She was not suggesting that I ditch my passion forever, of course, but rather that I temporarily ease off the pressure by exploring something new, some completely unrelated creative endeavor—something that I could find interesting, but with much lower emotional stakes. When passion feels so out of reach, Sarah explained, curiosity can be a calming diversion. If passion is a tower of flame, then curiosity is a modest spark—and we can almost always summon up a modest spark of interest about something.

So what was my modest spark? Gardening, as it turned out. Following my friend's advice, I stepped away from my writing desk and spent six months absentmindedly digging in the dirt. I had some successes (fabulous tomatoes!); I had some failures (collapsed bean poles!). None of it really mattered, though, because gardening, after all, was just my curiosity—something to keep me modestly engaged through a difficult period. (At such moments, believe me, even modest engagement can feel like a victory.)

Then the miracle happened. Autumn came. I was pulling up the spent tomato vines when—quite suddenly, out of nowhere—I realized exactly how to fix my book. I washed my hands, returned to my desk, and within three months I'd completed the final version of Committed—a book that I now love.

Gardening, in other words, had turned me back into a writer.

So here's my weird bit of advice: If you've lost your life's true passion (or if you're struggling desperately to find passion in the first place), don't sweat it. Back off for a while. But don't go idle, either. Just try something different, something you don't care about so much. Why not try following mere curiosity, with its humble, roundabout magic? At the very least, it will keep you pleasantly distracted while life sorts itself out. At the very most, your curiosity may surprise you. Before you even realize what's happening, it may have led you safely all the way home.

AbsorBed wiTh...

2011-02-09T13:45:00.000+08:00

I'm totally into Mitch Albom's Have A Little Faith... I'm midway through and putting it down is just so hard to do. I plan to finish reading this by tonight.

I won't write what it is all about because I strongly believe that everyone should grab a copy and read it.

0.500 kg LosT

2011-02-04T13:41:00.001+08:00

Today is Joaquin's check up and I'm so happy to report that he already lost 0.500 kg!!! I felt a winner! Though his blood pressure is a little high, pedia still congratulated us for a job well done! And for additional good news, pedia also informed us that Joaquin needs to lose just 2kg for the entire year, since she is foreseeing that Joaquin will grow a couple of inches naman. Yey!

Well done little boy and a pat on the back for me as well. Tough love is worth it :)

3yr oLd On a diET

2011-01-29T21:34:00.001+08:00

Yes, it is a sad day for us indeed. We just found out that our 3year old Joaquin is suffering from 1st stage hypertension. It made me feel such an inadequate Mom. I cried silently and cursed myself for letting this happen to my child. Husband comforted me and told me that I shouldn't over react and that look at the positive side.. it was detected early thus can be addressed with the necessary counter measures. Yes, husband is right, but I just can't help but to blame myself. I am the mother and I should have seen this coming.

But as husband said, my son and I will rebound from this. I started making a food journal of Joaquin's daily food intake. It's a struggle to prevent him from the things he want, but as my friend says, "con, tough love. tough love."

Then tough love it is.

A SisTer's LoVe

2011-01-24T22:05:00.002+08:00

I was supposed to celebrate my 31st birthday at Yellowcab Eastwood with family but since Joaquin got sick and was hospitalized for three days, all plans were cancelled.

I was content to hear mass and eat at my parents' place (which we usually do after mass on Saturday nights), but then my sister Tin had other plans...

She felt it was not right that my birthday just go by without any hurrah or something to that effect. She called my Mom to tell her that she won't be hearing mass and instead she and Bindoy went to SanJuan and a couple of more places to buy food! She said to my Mom, "Ma, birthday kasi ni Ate, wawa naman kung wala man lang handa. Ako na bahala sa handa ni Ate Mama, pa-birthday ko na ito sa kanya". So she spent thousands to buy like 5 kinds of viand, and mind you not just ordinary viands but the likes of Spareribs, Steaks, Roasted Chicken, Java Rice, etc...

Just some of the scrumptious feast my dear sister bought for my birthday

Maan, Mikko's girlfriend, gave me a birthday cake! My dad added ice cream to the sweet endings. My birthday can't be anymore complete!

Then it was time for the cake blowing!

More pictures!

I didn't show them but I was near tears when my sister walked in with tons of food in both hands. I just felt so overwhelmed with love. This just made my conviction stronger that I want more kids. Iba talaga pag may kapatid. Sa hirap at ginhawa, sila unang dadamay. I want Joaquin to experience the beauty of having siblings. Yes, there may be quarrels or grudges and the likes, but in the end... the love will shine through.

I love you dear sister. It was enough that Joaquin got released on my birthday, but you went an extra mile and made it extra special. I can't ask for anything more.

jOaquin does iT aGain!

2011-01-16T15:31:00.002+08:00

It's the annual Sto. Nino fiesta in our village and the school children were required to perform at the court as part of the program. Once again, my little boy didn't fail to give the audience a laugh-out-loud performance with his crazy dance moves :)

It's so nice that my son is growing up in an environment where fiestas and traditions are kept alive. I want Joaquin to experience how amazing Catholic ways and Filipino culture are.

Different traditional dances were presented by the school children

Dearest Joaquin,

My heart pounds as I watch you perform on center stage. I was armed with a videocam while Papa with his camera, ready to capture everything, not missing a single shot. Then it dawned on me Anak, we won't be there physically always. There will be times that we will be missing a shot in your life, but be brave Anak, as we will equip you with the best tools that we know and can provide so that you can handle whatever challenges you face.

I love you Anak and we are so proud of you.

BanCheTTo-Emerald

2011-01-08T13:57:00.001+08:00

My dad's been raving for the longest time of Banchetto-Emerald. He says it's like the food central of the universe (lol. exag talaga si papa), and that there's like a never ending flood of people (again. exag ata talaga). So I had to see it for myself. I was accompanied by my dear friend Mhickey, my brother RC, and his friend Ana.

This is what we saw when we got there at 12:00 midnight. (Yes, Banchetto-emerald starts at 12:00midnight and ends at 11:00am, every Friday)

Whoa! My dad wasn't exaggerating at all when he described the crowd! We can barely move especially in the middle section. It's like you're being dragged by waves of people!

And my oh my! Food! Food! Food! Glorious Food!

There are even desserts!!! -- to die for!! lol!

We were so overwhelmed with the choices that we didn't get the chance to eat! lol! Next time we will be prepared! Next stop.. Banchetto-Pioneer.

wiSh LisT FoR 2011

2011-01-05T21:32:00.003+08:00

I procrastinated doing this for year 2010. My friends did this and got 40% of what they posted or 'shouted-out' to the universe.

1. A happy and healthy family (as always)

2. A healthy safe pregnancy and delivery

3. A food business and restaurant of my own

photo courtesy of http://besthomegallery.com/interior/cafe-shop-interior-gallery-modern-store-design-with-colorful-theme/

4. My dream kitchen

photo courtesy of http://www.google.com/images?client=safari&rls=en&q=barefoot+contessa+kitchen+pictures&oe=UTF-8&um=1&ie=UTF-8&source=univ&ei=SJ81Tc6gLIamcOvUregH&sa=X&oi=image_result_group&ct=title&resnum=1&ved=0CCMQsAQwAA&biw=1276&bih=634

5. Lots of construction projects for hubby!

6. Sales growth for the family business

7. Really nice hand bags ( I never had a decent stylish bag)

8. A brand new car for hubby :) for being hardworking and a good provider

9. A treadmill! so I can get back in shape at home after I give birth! lol!

10. A new phone! (sony ericsson xperia arc or blackberry bold)

ThAnk yOu LoRd :)

2011-01-02T20:46:00.002+08:00

The best way to start 2011 is to thank the Lord.

Thank you for all the blessings we have received in the past year and for the future blessings you will bestow this new year.

Thank you Lord for the tightening of my clothes, it means I have more than enough to eat.

Thank you Lord for the traffic going to my destination, it means I have means of transportation.

Thank you Lord for the endless reunions and gatherings, it means I have a family that truly loves and supports us.

Thank you for the challenges in the office, it means we are smart and capable of handling things and standing up again. It means my faith will ever grow stronger.

Most importantly...

Thank you Lord for the gift of family.

The hug and reassurance of my husband is more than enough to let me know that everything will be alright. The constant laughter and squeal of my son is more than enough to recharge me and to let me know that I can face the world and that I am loved.

wELcOme 2011

2011-01-01T10:37:00.001+08:00

We welcomed 2011 with a big big bang!!! It started it with an early dinner with the Versozas at 630am. We stayed there until 9pm and rushed to hear the New Year's Mass at our village, after which we transferred to the Cordovas for the much awaited countdown.

Since I cooked last Christmas, sister dearest took her turn this time around, as usual it was yummy!

Before the countdown, we took time to take pictures.

Then it was just 5 minutes away from 2011!! We all went out on the streets to welcome the New Year!

Happy Happy New Year Everyone!!!

MeRriEsT ChriSTmAs eVer 2!

2010-12-25T22:40:00.000+08:00

Santiagos have this reputation of being outgoing, creative, close-knit, and all out. This was most visible during the annual Christmas celebration. This year was done at Kuya Aldrin and Ate Myra's home at Filinvest East.

Tita Beth and Tito Cesar gave everyone matching red shirts, as our official uniform. It was so nice to see that everyone really wore it!

Food was sumptuous as prepared by the ever reliable nanay Rosie! She is no chef but she sure can cook up a storm!!! Ang sarap! as in!

My pilyo and makukulit kuyas became our host and emcee. Laughter filled the place as games were played one after the other. I won in one of the games!

Joaquin joined in as well and even performed his 'poker-face' routine which earned him giggles, laughter, applauses, and P700! Not bad, and I'm on proud Mama :) Tito Rc tried imitating Joaquin's dance performance... he got P20! lol lol lol!

Then there was gift-giving and picture taking with Mommy Conse. Joaquin got tons of gifts! And after three long years, we get to take a Christmas picture with our dearest Lola :)

Merry Merry Christmas everyone! Until the next year! Hip hip hooray for the Santiagos!

MeRriEsT ChriSTmAs eVer!

2010-12-24T12:37:00.000+08:00

This got to be one of my most happiest Christmas ever. You all know that it has been three years since I last celebrated Christmas with my side of the family, so just imagine how ecstatic I was to learn that I'll get to celebrate it with them this year.

No doubt and no question I was in charge of Noche Buena, so I planned ahead. This is my family and I'm going to let them feel how happy and blessed I am to have them. It's a way of saying thank you to them for being there ALWAYS.

I am sucker at keeping a theme (in food that is), so I had to consider what everyone would like... Asian it is.
First, I made Molo or Almondigas soup (don't know which is the correct term though) with hearty sprinkle of Spring Onions and a dash of Sesame oil. Then I made Chicken Terriyaki (yes, I made the sauce from scratch, it was painstakingly laborious but well worth my family).

Since our family friend Bindoy is a caterer, I asked his assistance with the fish, which he steamed with ginger, garlic and in leeks and finished with a light soy sauce. Yummy! The surprise dish of the night was that of my sister's. It was the first time she cooked lengua and it was sooooo damn good!!!! It was an instant hit! I have to ask her how she does it. It beats all the lengua I've eaten and tasted to far.

For the pork, I made two entries, I made Sweet and Sour Pork and Pork Stew with Mixed Vegetables. Apologies for the lighting in the kitchen, everything seems to be more red or yellow than the usual. hahaha :)

This is not asian, but since I have Asparagus, I wrapped it in bacon and served it as well :) Then Asian, wouldn't be complete without Yang chow (again, apologies for the lighting).

After a hearty Noche Buena, we proceeded with the gift giving

and picture taking :)

Of course it wouldn't be complete without the wacky shots :)

Looking forward to the next Christmas!!!

NOcHe BueNa

2010-12-20T23:32:00.000+08:00

After three long years, I finally get to spend Christmas with my side of the family!!! Yey!!! My sister and I will be cooking Noche Buena and I'm quite excited and torn on what will be on the menu.

Menu 1:
-Roasted Bell Pepper Soup with Croutons
-My sister's signature salad
-Deep Fried Cream Dory with Remoulade Sauce
-Slow Roast Beef Shortplate with Peppercorn sauce and Mushroom gravy
-Chicken -- still pondering
-Asparagus wrapped in Bacon
-Potato Gratin
-Steamed Rice

Menu 2:
-Molo Soup
-Thai Beef Salad
-Pan fried Lapu with Lemon Garlic Sauce
-Sweet and Sour Pork
-Salt and Pepper Chicken
-Cauliflower Fritters
-Kimchie Fried Rice

I have 3 more days to think it over. Yikes!!!

HappY 59th biRThday PaPa!

2010-12-01T14:22:00.000+08:00

When I was a kid, I really don't understand why most of the grown ups I know hated to have big parties on their birthdays. I mean that's why it's your birthday. There should be lots of food, drinks, gifts, and cake! But as I got older, I realized nothing can make a birthday such a happy day for the celebrant but a complete and healthy family.

We celebrated Papa's 59th birthday starting off by hearing mass at Christ the King Church, (just needed to rant, mass was scheduled at 6:00pm, my dear husband came home at 6:00pm. I was so upset because I knew my Papa really wanted for the whole family to hear mass together. We arrived when Holy Communion was about to start), then after which we had a simple dinner at Sushiya Libis. Papa loves Japanese food, we let him order to his heart's desire, and the three of us working siblings footed the bill. Just a simple appreciation for all Papa has done for us :)

Happy Happy Birthday Papa!!! Wishing you more, more, and more birthdays to come! You're the best there is and we love you so much :)

SiCk niNanG

2010-11-15T23:24:00.001+08:00

Workaholic. This is how to best describe my dear sister. But as the saying goes, "The mind is willing, but the flesh is weak", and it has come to that point. She might want to work 24/7 but her body can't take it anymore. She got hospitalized at St. Lukes Global City due to acute tonsillitis and over fatigue.

See even at the hospital, Sister dearest still working. I'm so proud of her, but sometimes, she really needs to rest. She is so like our Dad. Exactly the same work habits and discipline.

See the little boy on the Lazy-boy (yes, the have Lazy-boys at St. Lukes) busily playing the I-Pad? Well, I don't know if little boy visited his Ninang TinTin OR Ninang TinTin's I-pad. lol!!!

I really liked the big spacious room at St. Lukes compared to that of Medical City's, plus free Wifi! It makes accompanying a sick loved one... more fun! lol! And look, even Yaya is enjoying the view!

Missing The Kid Games

2010-11-07T10:02:00.000+08:00

One thing I look forward to our Sunday lunch with the Cordovas, aside from the great food and kwentuhans, are the games my parents would make for Joaquin and King. We are so used to instant things, which I am so guilty of, like just turning on the television for Joaquin's entertainment or bringing him to Timezone while hubby and I lounge at Starbucks. My bad!

Remember last time, my Dad taught Joaquin how to catch worms? Now, my Mom devised a game in which the end goal is get as many rubber bands buried under the soil with just the use of barbecue sticks. We used to play this when we were little and my Mom told me it was my Lolo who taught her this game as well.

Rules: All rubber bands are buried under the soil. Each player gets one try in guessing and scooping where the rubber bands might be. No double scooping! :)

Little boy had lots of fun! And thank you Lola Vi for all the effort! Until the next game! :)

On Being a Mom

2010-11-02T13:57:00.000+08:00

I dropped by Clarice's blog and I saw this must read entry :)

Being a Mom

We are sitting at lunch one day when my daughter casually mentions that she and her husband are thinking of "starting a family."

"We're taking a survey," she says half-joking. "Do you think I should have a baby?"

"It will change your life," I say, carefully keeping my tone neutral.

"I know," she says, "no more sleeping in on weekends, no more spontaneous vacations."

But that is not what I meant at all. I look at my daughter, trying to decide what to tell her. I want her to know what she will never learn in childbirth classes.

I want to tell her that the physical wounds of child bearing will heal, but becoming a mother will leave her with an emotional wound so raw that she will forever be vulnerable.

I consider warning her that she will never again read a newspaper without asking, "What if that had been MY child?" That every plane crash, every house fire will haunt her. That when she sees pictures of starving children, she will wonder if anything could be worse than watching your child die.

I look at her carefully manicured nails and stylish suit and think that no matter how sophisticated she is, becoming a mother will reduce her to the primitive level of a bear protecting her cub. That an urgent call of "Mom!" will cause her to drop a soufflé or her best crystal without a moment's hesitation.

I feel that I should warn her that no matter how many years she has invested in her career, she will be professionally derailed by motherhood.

She might arrange for childcare, but one day she will be going into an important business meeting and she will think of her baby's sweet smell. She will have to use every ounce of discipline to keep from running home, just to make sure her baby is all right.

I want my daughter to know that every day decisions will no longer be routine. That a five year old boy's desire to go to the men's room rather than the women's at McDonald's will become a major dilemma. That right there, in the midst of clattering trays and screaming children, issues of independence and gender identity will be weighed against the prospect that a child molester be lurking in that restroom.

However decisive she may be at the office, she will second-guess herself constantly as a mother.

Looking at my attractive daughter, I want to assure her that eventually she will shed the pounds of pregnancy, but she will never feel the same about herself. That her life, now so important, will be of less value to her once she has a child. That she would give herself up in a moment to save her offspring, but will also begin to hope for more years, not to accomplish her own dreams, but to watch her child accomplish theirs.

I want her to k now that a cesarean scar or shiny stretch marks will become badges of honor.

My daughter's relationship with her husband will change, but not in the way she thinks. I wish she could understand how much more you can love a man who is careful to powder the baby or who never hesitates to play with his child. I think she should know that she will fall in love with him again for reasons she would now find very unromantic.

I wish my daughter could sense the bond she will feel with women throughout history who have tried to stop war, prejudice and drunk driving.

I want to describe to my daughter the exhilaration of seeing your child learn to ride a bike. I want to capture for her the belly laugh of a baby who is touching the soft fur of a dog or cat for the first time.

TRY NOT TO CRY....

I want her to taste the joy that is so real it actually hurts.

My daughter's quizzical look makes me realize that tears have formed in my eyes. "You'll never regret it," I finally say. Then I reached across the table, squeezed my daughter's hand and offered a silent prayer for her, and for me, and for all the mere mortal women who stumble their way into this most wonderful of callings.

TriCk or TreaT!

2010-10-28T12:51:00.001+08:00

When I became a Mom, I've never looked Halloween the same way again. I'd get restless when I can't find a costume for Joaquin during mid-October, (hahahaha! end of the world ba?). It is as if there is a silent contest between parents whose kid will outdo the others (or am i just crazy? lol). Anyways, here are some pictures of Joaquin's Trick or Treat :)

He really wanted Power Ranger costume but we couldn't find one. Then we saw this cute Ninja costume at Toy kingdom, Papa tricked Joaquin by telling him "Kapatid ni Power Ranger yan" just so little boy would wear it! Lol! I know! Our bad! But you have to agree, it was worth it :)

Off to Rafoux for the Trick or Treat Activity. Kids in costume are soooo cute!

Then to Ninang TinTin's office where Joaquin won best in costume! :)

ThE GrAduATe!

2010-10-23T21:39:00.001+08:00

I've envisioned this moment for the longest time. Tear swelled up my eyes as I received my diploma and my awards. I finally made it.

Thank you Lord. I am living my life to the fullest and can now say... I have no regrets :)

FiShiNg TaKe 2!

2010-10-15T20:41:00.001+08:00

Cordova Family's national past time :) Or rather, it is more of the boys who went 'ga-ga' over it. Haha! Either way, what's important is we had fun! And a family bonding experience that will go down the books :)

Gas for 3 cars going to Pampanga = P1,000.00 each. Picnic Food for the whole family = P3,000.00 10kilos of Cream Dory caught = P5,000.00

The smiles and laughters in your loved ones' faces = PRICELESS

ConGrATs AntHony and WenNy

2010-10-09T20:19:00.001+08:00

Wenny is my college friend. Right after graduation, she flew to the U.S. with her family. We tried to keep in touch via emails, but my being such a bad responder, the correspondence didn't flourish much, until she got engaged! And thank God for Facebook!

I just love weddings. Every time the bride walks down the aisle, I can't help but feel goosebumps and teary eyed because I've been there and done that. I just sooo understand the ramblings and musings of a bride. Every time I attend a wedding, I can't help but reminisce ours, and how I wish we could get married again (of course with the same person, minus the 20lbs. lol!)! Hahaha!

And now I'm so looking forward to my special friend, Sangkay, who will be getting married this coming November. :)

It's a .... Baby!!!

2010-10-08T00:06:00.000+08:00

Confirmed! Baby#2 5 weeks and 6 days old!!!

Both excited and nervous. Mixed emotions. Don't know why, but for sure, babies are always a blessing :)

Sleepover

2010-09-28T00:00:00.001+08:00

For two days, my niece, Brice (2yrs old) and nephew, Razo (10mos old), slept over at our house since their parents went off to Bangkok for a Rowing competition.

(L-R) Joaquin, Brice, and Razo

Looking at the kids sleeping side by side, I can't help but wonder if I had more kids? Will it be fun? Can I manage them? Is Joaquin ready for a sibling?

I wiLL miSs The MOsT

2010-09-25T11:17:00.000+08:00

School is nearing the end... but I've never really talked about my classmates until now. Well. not all of them, but the one I'll miss the most...

How can I describe a person who never left me the whole duration of the school year. My day seem ain't complete without his jolly personality. One text message from him "Arf!" or "Meow!" never fails to leave a smile on my face. His constant comments like "Mommy Con, you are forever destitute", whenever I am asking him for a drink, always makes me laugh. The best would be, "MOmmy Con! I am dying!" which he would always tell right before an examination or a love gone awry.

He is 10 years younger than me, but that didn't stop me from constantly confiding to him. He seems to know what to say to make my day all seem worth while. He's like a little brother/sister that I'm really fond of. And now that we are just days weeks away from the graduation, I can't help but reminisce the fun times we had, and that I wish our friendship would grow stronger as the years progress.

Thanks for everything Mhickey! I miss you already.

HappY biRThday Mommy Conse!

2010-09-19T20:48:00.001+08:00

Our dearest Lola, the matriarch of the Santiago clan, turned 91 today. Ever since my Lolo died, we try to make it her best birthday every year.

We started the day by hearing mass together at Santuario de San Jose Greenhills, wherein Mommy Conse was personally greeted and blessed by the priest.

Then we had a sumptuous lunch at Salt and Pepper restaurant along Edsa (former Barrio Fiesta place).

Until the next birthday Mommy Conse! We love you!

neArLy dOne

2010-09-17T20:35:00.000+08:00

Today is the day that we pick our last menu for the finals hands on...

I got the menu with the dreaded Beef Consomme!!! Well, I guess it's now or never and I still got about a week to strategize. This is it!

HappY biRThday aTe saBeL

2010-09-14T14:01:00.000+08:00

A simple birthday dinner for Ate Sabel at Kitaro :) Just with family.

Happy Happy Birthday Ate Sabel!

JoaqUin's FiRsT moVie !!!

2010-09-12T01:00:00.004+08:00

Hubby and I felt it was the right time to introduce Joaquin to the big screen!

Little Boy was ecstatic! Even held his own ticket! Hahaha!

Little Boy was relatively behaved during the movie! There were times he would cover his ears when the sounds got too loud. But he kept on saying in awe "Papa! Mama! Ang laki ng TV noh!" lol.

We were so happy that Little Boy enjoyed his first movie experience that hubby treated him to Stackers! Kids + burgers = what more can a kid ask for. lol.

Crunchy cheeseburger for Hubby, Philly cheese steak for me. Cheese burger for Joaquin

Funny this pix. I was trying to take a picture of Hubby with his burger when Joaquin's hand suddenly shoots up to show off his burger as well. lol. So ok fine, I took his picture of him savoring his burger, with matching pikit pa ng eyes. lol.

What more can I ask for?

arMy nAvY

2010-09-06T00:12:00.001+08:00

Sunday is usually a family day for us unless hubby thinks otherwise, (separate blog entry), lol. Family opted to explore Makati malls. Well actually just one, Glorietta, since Hubby was craving for Army Navy. His love affair with Army Navy started when we saw it in Tagaytay, so you can just picture his face when he saw it in Glorietta 5. Haha!

My boys playing, rather, Papa playing with Joaquin's face while we were waiting for our orders...

Loved everything we ordered! And yes we will come back again and again :)

FinALLy he cALms!

2010-09-02T21:38:00.000+08:00

We've been dreading JOaquin's haircut appointment... because he bawls like a newborn baby and like there is no tomorrow! He wasn't like this during his first time, that was why we were in shocked when he cried the third and the fourth time. Today is his 6th time and boy oh boy, we are totally dreading it.

Upon seeing the entrance of the kiddie salon, Joaquin immediately stiffened up and tried to negotiate his way out of it. He looked up to me and his Papa and literally begged that he didn't want his hair cut! But there was no negotiating today. Hubby firmly took Joaquin by the hand, sat down at the couch and had a 'man-to-man' talk about why he shouldn't cry, and that he is a big boy so he should act one.

After the much needed pep talk, Papa led Joaquin to the kiddie chair, thus the cutting began...

Miracle of all miracles!!! He actually sat his way through the hair cut! He actually behaved!!! Even kuya the barber was surprised at how behaved Joaquin was!

After the stress free hair cut, the family had dinner at Jatujak thai restaurant...

Their Thai food is one of the best I've tasted. The Bagoong Rice was just right! Not even salty, just the correct balance of flavor. The chicken pandan is not oily, and really tender. The fish with string beans inspired me to try it at home. The Tom yum soup sourness is on the right level.

And our verdict...

Need I say more?

ThE PoWeR

2010-09-01T20:36:00.001+08:00

A nice way to start September... is to read this totally awesome book by the famed author Rhonda Byrne.

And what's better and I've 'secreted' for so long? Hubby was the one who bought this book! He never really is the bookish type, so it was a big surprise for me that he got interested in a book and a damn good one! Yey! 1000 pogi points for my hubby! lol. Love you hunnie! :)